Wearing this pin says to other women:

My goal is to be an ally to you.   

I am a person who means to be a resource and a friend to all women.

I honor your individual experience and simultaneously strive for sisterhood.

If you are afraid or in need of help, I am someone you can turn to.  I will believe you, and I will try to help.

If I have offended or hurt you, hold me accountable with the understanding that I never want to do this.

Please know my intention is to continually learn and grow, though I may make mistakes from time to time out of ignorance or fear.

I vow to listen and be educated, as well as share and educate, as gracefully and generously as I am able,

always with the fundamental pursuit of unity. 

I am a person who has pain and understands inherently that you are a person who has pain as well,

therefore I will give you the benefit of the doubt that you don't mean to be offensive or hurtful either.  

I will seek to see, respect and value your humanity, and I hope you can do the same for me. 

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We are all so different.  Our backgrounds, our education, our communities, the layers of privilege or lack of it, the cultural intricacies and ripple effects of our wounding throughout our lives.  No one is the authority on what it is to be a woman of any kind in this society.  No one has a monopoly on pain.  However, there is a great need for us to continue learning about each other.  To stay open minded and soft hearted with one another.  To look at ourselves honestly and face our misgivings and harms done to others. To dialogue.  To find common ground.  To create more harmony and unity.  Our power and strength lies in healing the fragmentation, building bridges through education and greater consciousness. 

The waves of judgment, hatred and division between us are the most beloved tools of the patriarchy. 

For too long we have felt scared of and threatened by other women.  We have also judged harshly, played into games of power, belittling and backstabbing other women.  Now as we are waking up from the delusion, we see that being an ally, a source of honesty, safety and support for other women IS THE KEY TO UNDOING THE PATTERNS OF THE PATRIARCHY. 

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